A Word from Susan & Mark Mathes

Dear Friends,

A few days ago, our son, who works in retail, called with the message: “Be nice to the store clerks when you shop!” He proceeded to tell us that several people yelled at him, a clerk, when the store was out of something they wanted to buy. He then mentioned another situation where a man picked the last of an item from the shelf. Another man approached and insisted that he be allowed to take the item as he had a rain check for it. An angry discussion ensued, causing two store managers to approach the two men with the message: “You will have to take this argument outside.” The men dispersed with no further incident. We assured our son that we are always nice to clerks, something that we’re sure he knows. These incidents, though, caused him to realize that the times in which we live can bring out the worst in some people.

These times, though, also bring out the best in some people, such as the older woman customer who said to our son, “Thank you; you’re such a sweet young man.” Additional friendly and appreciative comments, helpful suggestions, neighbors and acquaintances calling each other, shopping and running errands for those at risk, and more are signs that we are disciples of the one who came not to be served, but to serve.

The worst of this pandemic is likely ahead of us. How we respond and continue to respond when things get worse will tell the world who we are and whose we are. Do we expect to be served or will we serve? Will we look out only for ourselves or will we sacrifice our own will to others and to Christ Jesus? We have been presented with a great opportunity to be faithful. As one of my (Susan’s) favorite old sweatshirts says, we’re “Friends Thru it All.” Let us be friend and friendly to store clerks, and let us be faithful to God, our church, and each other, now and always.

Susan & Mark Mathes